Saturday, October 31, 2009

Definitions and Resources

I am reading Ruby Payne's Understanding Poverty

The working definition of poverty is "the extent to which an individual does without resources". The resources she discusses are listed below:

  1. Financial: Having the money to purchase goods and services.
  2. Emotional: Being able to choose and control emotional responses, particularly to negative situations, without engaging in self-destructive behavior. This is an internal resource and hows itself through stamina, perseverance, and choice. I think of family that I love here. I believe my mom was from a poverty stricken area, if not family in her younger years. If the sins of the father (and mother) are passed from generation to generations, then it makes sense that this theory - not being able to control emotional responses, would also be passed from generation to generation, unless there is a mentor somewhere along the line to change the patterns, or help teach new ones. I see where this affects people in my family, here. When things get hard - and they do for everyone, he engages in self-destructive behavior. (There was even a verse in Leviticus I think, that said we are to pray for the sins of our father - goes hand in hand with bondage breakers and Mr. Ramirez's conversation this week)
  3. Mental - Having the mental abilities and acquired skills (reading, writing, computing) to deal with daily life.
  4. Spiritual, Believing in diving purpose and guidance.
  5. Physical - Having physical health and mobility.
  6. Support systems: having friends, family , and back up resources available to access in times of need. These are external resources.
  7. Relationships/Role Models: Having frequent access to adults who are appropriate, who are nurturing to the child, and who do not engage in self-destructive behavior.
  8. Knowledge of Hidden Rules: Knowing the unspoken cues and habits of a group. (A hidden rule in poverty include the noise level being high (The TV is on and everyone talks at once)

That's really amazing - when I think of these things- my mom falls into many of them, which kept her in poverty.

Now - how to incorporate this to help our students....

Saturday, October 17, 2009

A Crisis Can Lead to Healing Choices - Tools @ PurposeDriven.com

A Crisis Can Lead to Healing Choices - Tools @ PurposeDriven.com

Considering the issues at hand - this is so timely! God is so good.... Praying he uses me - to reach others. Even those I don't like!

Saturday, October 3, 2009

So much to pray about!

Phil 4:4-7

4Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! 5Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. 6Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

I am excited about what God is getting ready to do.... even if it's just a changed heart! So many things to pray about -----

Property
Family relationships
Serving him
Working

On top of the normal every day stuff - like kids - family - triathlon tomorrow!